Friday, April 4, 2025

Saturday, April 5

It's after 11, we've both had a walk, the Coles order has been completed on-line and Marilyn has just put on the kettle ... all's right with the world.  We've stopped watching the news but, even in our self-imposed bubble, we're aware of the fact that there's an election coming up.  I resigned from the election workforce a couple of years ago but Marilyn has still been involved.  She's been encouraged to work again this year but I'm pleased that she has seen sense and refused.  The TV ads are for both Federal and State elections so I suspect the state is going to save some money by tacking a local by-election on the main show, although it's only for the Upper House in a couple of electorates and I don't think it includes us. No doubt somebody will tell us in due course.   Jamie has dropped off some application forms for postal votes in the Federal Election to save us lining up; he must think we're getting old.

It's very overcast here today but that's typical of the weather pattern at this time of the year.  I've already watered and hung stuff on the line and I think that is the extent of my day's work.

Thursday, April 3, 2025

Friday, April 4

 I bought my first ebook reader in, I think, 2009.  It was a Bebook, manufactured in The Netherlands and used the epub format.  The Kindle had been released a year or two earlier but had a pricing structure which I suspected would prove to be too costly in the long term.  The whole idea of ebooks was new and I remember being on a plane to New Zealand in 2010 when a young woman leaned across and said,

"Excuse me, my husband suffers from gadget envy and wants to know what you have in your hand."  We had a pleasant conversation and they played with my bebook and were determined to rush off and buy one.

Later that year we were in Nepal and I introduced the gadget to the other members of our party.  They all headed off to duty free to see what they could find.  It's a good feeling to be in the forefront of a trend.

Since then, Marilyn and I have had several ereaders, mostly Kobo brand.  We found they were particularly useful when we wanted to read when we were out in the sun, like on the deck of a ship.  They were great when we were travelling but I found we were not using them as much now that we are back on shore.

Until ... We have become particularly sedentary and spend an inordinate amount of time sitting outside in our new gazebo.  What better time to read.  I dug out our old Kobos but they had died of old age and neglect.  Marilyn was quite happy to find something else to do but I was itching for another ereader.  Jamie wanted me to have a Kindle but, over the years I've downloaded hundreds of books in the epub format so I needed another Kobo or something similar.

"Don't buy a cheapie." he said. (He knows me too well.)  I investigated - nearly $300 for a Kobo but there was a cheapie on Kogan for $105.  I couldn't resist.  It came, beautifully packed in a presentation box .  The font was a bit small but my eyes aren't that bad.  I've had it a few weeks now and it was OK, although not as satisfying as a Kobo.  Still, I remind myself , it was cheap!  

Two days ago, it stopped working, refusing to accept a charge. It has died, gone to God, joined the choir invisible, turned up its toes, it's an ex-reader. It's so tiny I can't even use it as a paper weight. Jamie has resisted saying, "I told you so" but, of course, I should have bought a Kobo in the first place.


Wednesday, April 2, 2025

Thursday, April 3

 It was another trip to the doctor yesterday to have my toe checked, and it was all fine.  I was tempted to ask him whether I would be able to resume my career as a professional dancer but I suspected he wouldn't get the joke.  Fair enough, it's not really funny. 

I was watching Scott on Youtube this morning while he was wandering around Scotland looking for old wells.  I suppose if you lived in a place with such a long history it would be interesting to see the remains of the past.  In Longford, we only go back a couple of hundred years and the closest we come to ancient relics is the evidence of the car-racing track which existed her until the 1970s.  Interesting enough, I suppose but just scratching the surface of history.  He stopped at one stage to point out that there used to be a well at Balgownie. Balgownie?  Not the one near Wollongong, of course. The original Balgownie has been there for thousands of years.

Then he mentioned there was another well at Glennifer Brae.  That was the name of the big house in the paddock near our house in Gwyneville which became a posh girls' school, but that's not where he meant either.  

Later on, he found a site where the bricks were marked Blantyre Ferme and Blantyre is the name of the village where we began our lives before coming to Australia.

It's not unusual to have a connection to some of the things we discover on Youtube but to have three from one program is certainly strange.

Monday, March 31, 2025

Tuesday, April 1

 I've almost forgotten how much I hated April 1st when I was a school teacher.  Kids of primary-school age delighted in the freedom that the April Fools' Day tradition gave them to be obnoxious.  It was rare for them to play tricks on me; moving some things around on my desk or leaving something unpleasant on my chair might be as far as they would go, but some children became the butt of too much nastiness.  The rule was always that April Fool's Day finished before lunch, no exceptions.

Nowadays, of course, as a happily retired senior citizen, nobody tries to play ricks on me ... and that's the way I like it.

We have nothing much planned for today; I've watered already and had a walk, so the rest of the day is mine to enjoy.  I notice in my diary that I see the doctor tomorrow regarding my big toe and Daylight Saving ends on Sunday but there are no other plans until Probus next week.

As Marilyn would say, "All Good!"

Sunday, March 30, 2025

Monday, March 31

Jamie arrived early to drop Archie off.  Apparently he has a busy day and doesn't like to leave Archie at home on his own.  Of course, we enjoy having him..  We're waiting for the Coles man to arrive with our order but, otherwise, we have nothing else planned.  The weather is staring to become colder and I think Summer is fading fast into the background.

I had an email this morning reminding me that there is a probus meeting next week so need to sort out the financial statement.  It's the time of year when we pay our annal subs and these can come by cash or cheque, or deposited directly into our bank account.  I tried to resign from the Treasurer's job at the last meeting but without success.  You'd think it would just be a matter of throwing the books on the table and saying Goodbye but I'm a mug and tried to be accommodating.  Of course, the club took advantage of my good nature and I'm stuck with the job, probably until I kick the bucket. That'll show them!


MRS MINIVER                                                         JULY 9, 2021

Old Tom was in his ninetieth year.  He couldn’t remember when people started to attach the ‘Old’ to his name but it was probably a good while ago.  He felt as if he had been old for most of his life and now he wondered whether great slabs of his memory were disappearing.  He could still remember days of his childhood in great detail and could even recall the smells of rotting seaweed on Blackpool Beach or the reek of stale fat in the bins outside the chippie on Scorton Avenue. But when it came to remembering what he had for lunch yesterday, his mind was a blank.

Funny, that he could remember so clearly  the smell of Blackpool Beach but not something as important as what he had for lunch – even though he didn’t eat much these days and all the food tasted the same.

His mind wandered back to the days when food tasted better and he thought of the newspaper-wrapped fish and chips his mother would allow him to have on special occasions.  The fish was always cooked in crisp batter and the steam that came out when he stuck in the knife would tickle his nose.  The chips were fat and soaked in vinegar. 

Tom’s mum sometimes helped out in the chip shop when it was busy and, on those days, there would be nobody in the flat when Tom came home from school.  That was OK.  Tom’s mum would leave him a glass of milk and two ginger biscuits and he would read a book or get on with his homework until his Mum or Dad came home.  One day, when he came home, he discovered that his mother had forgotten to leave him the door key under the mat.   Settling himself down for an uncomfortable wait, he heard someone come up behind him.

“Hello, Tom,” the person said. “Are you locked out?”    It was Mrs Miniver from upstairs.  Well, it was the lady who called herself Mrs Miniver.  Mum said it was a made-up name and the real Mrs Miniver was in a film starring a famous film star whose name started with G.

“Yes,” said Tom, “and Mum won’t be back for another hour.”

“Oh, that’s a shame.  Would you like to come up to my flat and have some hot cocoa and maybe a biscuit?”

Tom didn’t know what to say.  He knew his mother didn’t like Mrs Miniver and he had overheard her telling his father that “she was no better that she should be.”  He thought that his mother wouldn’t like him to go but it was cold on the landing and he didn’t want to be rude so he said Thank you and went upstairs.

His mother was upset that Tom had gone with Mrs Miniver but, because she had forgotten to leave the key, she couldn’t say very much. Tom visited the flat upstairs more and more as time went on.  He liked Mrs Miniver’s flat.  It was always a bit untidy, unlike his place.  His mother was always angry with him if he made a mess and he was frightened to even leave a book lying about.  One day, Mrs Miniver had left the door of her bedroom open and Tom saw her unmade bed.  It had black sheets!  Tom thought all sheets were white and these ones were much shinier than the ones on his bed downstairs.

Occasionally, Mrs Miniver would ask him to leave a little early as she had a friend coming around to see her.  Sometimes, Tom would pass the friends on the stairs.  They didn’t look like the sort of people Mrs Miniver would know: sad little men in shabby coats, big men in fishermen’s jumpers, frightened men looking at him furtively.  Tom wondered what was going on and then realised that Mrs Miniver might be something like a fortune-teller and that would explain why she had so many visitors. Tom’s mum had been to a fortune-teller once and she was told that, when Tom grew up, he would wear a white coat.

“That means you’ll be a doctor,” she said excitedly. 

“More likely he’ll be selling ice-cream on Blackpool Pier,” his father had replied, grumpily.

When you’re a child, you grow up very quickly and Tom soon realised what was really taking place in the bedroom upstairs.  Like all boys he was fascinated by the frequency of the visits and struggled to reconcile his impression of Mrs Miniver as a kindly woman much like his Mum with the femme fatale image conjured up by the lurid language of his mates.

Of course, that was a long time ago and Mrs Miniver must be well and truly dead and buried.  Tom has always hoped that she passed away peacefully and is mourned by someone who loved her.  He can’t forget her, like he has forgotten so many people from his past.  One of the young women in the nursing home, by chance, wears the same perfume as Mrs Miniver wore and, like the smell of stale fat or rotting seaweed, the faint aroma of her perfume in the air takes his mind straight back to his home in Blackpool and the warm memories of Mrs Miniver, the lady upstairs.

Saturday, March 29, 2025

Sunday, March 30

I have a routine which I always follow on a Sunday morning: give Marilyn a cup of coffee so she stays in bed, have a cup of tea myself while watching Steve or Scott on Youtube, replenish my weekly medicine container and have a shower.  By this time Marilyn has wandered through and we can get on with breakfast and the rest of the day.
 
It's comforting to have a routine like that because there are usually no surprises to upset the apple-cart.  Recently, I've noticed another thing which seems to occur about the same time every Sunday: Paul, the fellow next door sets off for his walk, baseball cap on and ear buds stuck in his ear.  I hope he keeps it up; I don't like changes.

Friday, March 28, 2025

Saturday, March 29

 I'm waiting for Jamie to arrive to drive me to Westbury to see the doctor about my foot.  I'm old-fashioned, I know, but it seems strange to me that a doctor's surgery will be open on a Saturday.  It makes sense, of course.  We don't live in a Monday to Friday world but I'm just a bit slow in keeping up.

It's not my usual doctor and I was told he will just be checking 'how things are going'.  I hope that means the dressing can be removed and I can get back to my normal life: showering and so on.

The other thing on my desk to be dealt with is a form entitled 'Medical Fitness to Drive Assessment' and I'll have to deal with that at some stage.  It's not because of my advanced age that I have to do this, apparently; it's some medical condition that I suffer from, probably diabetes.  The list to be checked includes Blackouts, Epilepsy and Sleep Disorders so I suppose it's worth doing.  The trouble is that if I had any of these problems, I might be tempted not to tell anyone in case they took my licence away.

A good thing then that I am a responsible adult but I wonder how many people out there are slipping through the net.